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My boyfriend refuses to pay for our whole meal, I'm always paying half. Should I dump him?

Posted by Anonymous in Relationships

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  1. My response to this is that the relationship should be evaluated. Its one thing to be dating and the dinner is split. However, once in a relationship certain things should be adjusted. If both the man and woman is financially able to do so then alternate turns should be taken when paying for the meal in its entirety. There should not be times when the tab is split. Guys I’ve DATED in the past suggested splitting bill simply because they want no commitment at that time nor do they want to lose anything in the end if the date is unsuccessful. Immature, I know. Thats why those dates only happened once. To me dating forecasts the type of relationship you could potentially be heading in if the other individual treats and acts a certain way. I am involved in a serious relationship now and even my partner stated he wouldnt split the bill.Taking turns paying is more logical.I wouldnt dump him.Just talk to him and see how he feels about that suggestion. If he is still adamant on splitting the tab then “split up”. You can date someone and do that.Being in a relationship things should obviously be different. None the less. To each his own. Good luck with that.

  2. No, I believe the bill shoud be split in half so that way its fair. Yes sometimes it would be nice if he stepped up and said hunny don’t worry i’ll handle this. But nothing to break off you’re relationship over

  3. No, I believe the bill shoud be split in half so that way its fair. Yes sometimes it would be nice if he stepped up and said hunny don’t worry i’ll handle this. But nothing to break off you’re relationship over

  4. No, because relationships are not based on money. I know it’s corny, but relationships are built on trust, honesty, and love. Whether or not he pays should not determine your future with him. But honey, if he refuses to pay for dinner and makes you pay for the whole dinner, then we have a problem(:

  5. No, because relationships are not based on money. I know it’s corny, but relationships are built on trust, honesty, and love. Whether or not he pays should not determine your future with him. But honey, if he refuses to pay for dinner and makes you pay for the whole dinner, then we have a problem(:

  6. No, because relationships are not based on money. I know it’s corny, but relationships are built on trust, honesty, and love. Whether or not he pays should not determine your future with him. But honey, if he refuses to pay for dinner and makes you pay for the whole dinner, then we have a problem(:

  7. No, because relationships are not based on money. I know it’s corny, but relationships are built on trust, honesty, and love. Whether or not he pays should not determine your future with him. But honey, if he refuses to pay for dinner and makes you pay for the whole dinner, then we have a problem(:

  8. Well for one thing how long have you 2 been dating? Then ask yourself if you marry this guy will he do this with bills?

  9. No, it’s a give and take.

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